Dont expect autistic people to able to socialize like normal people. Dont expect them to have strenth or the will to mask to fit in. Dont expect them to give shit about the things you give a shit about. Dont expect them to follow the same norms in any area of life that you do.

Dont expect cold people to be warm. Dont expect them to be your emotional support. Dont expect them to be able to put themselves in other peoples shoes.

Dont expect emotional people to be reasonable and logical. Dont expect them to make sense. Dont expect them to think like logical people think. Dont expect them to have same values logical people have.

Dont expect high iq people to be normal. Dont even expect them not to be total fucking assholes at times. Dont expect them to conform, to meet expectations. Dont expect that they care about that. Dont expect them not to think things step further than most people.

Expect people to be what they most likely are. Sometimes you will be surprised. Most times you will not be.