Pretendence.
People pretend to be things they are not. Alot of times fake it till you make it makes total sense and just works.
Some people just cant, or dont want to pretend. But they get judged the same way as all the other people who naturally pretend. Its like masking but neurotypical. Everyone does it to some extent. But the people who do it the least always get the most shit. Even if everyone thinks the same about a thing of some controversy, the one who doesnt pretend to think otherwise gets shit on. Tribalism is a funny fucking thing. It annoys me. I get the point in having to pretend because you want to keep up appearances or to belong in a group, but where is the line? That part has never been clear to me. I guess the masses make the rules in this case (public morals?), but trusting masses is a bad move most of the time.
Like everyone agrees killing is bad and you should not do it. If you dont agree, you should be shit on. And even in that case, theres circumstances where killing is justified. Protecting your family for example. Defending yourself. Nobody seems to give two shits about killing a spider.
Yet the moment you mention any controversy in public morals you get shit on.
Most people like to pretend they have a handle of life. Like they know what they are doing. Like its simple. Yet in reality absolutely nobody knows what they are doing, what life is, what the earth is, what cosmos is, what existence is, fucking nothing.
But that pretendence is necessary to function in a group. To what extent? I dont know. Depends on the group I guess.